Formal

Six months ago, I wrote a post about why I didn’t want to go to the formal. It’s a little funny to read what I wrote then, and because I know the post is a little “tl;dr” I’m going to quote myself:

Perhaps you may all read a hypocritical blog from me in six months, where I tell you how absolutely amazing the formal was, and I how I couldn’t believe I ever contemplated not going.

It might be terrible, it might not be so bad, but I won’t know unless I go, so I guess that’s what I’m doing.

Boris and I outside the formal venue.Let me tell you now that the formal was neither “absolutely amazing” nor was it the disaster I had expected it to be - it was just like a normal night out, only more dressed up and with my entire year group instead of just with friends. I didn’t go with anyone, oh, except maybe Boris as a pretend-date kind of thing. The food was average and so was the music.

Alright, I won’t lie, it was quite fun. But sure, dancing, hanging out and getting dressed up is fun, but after five hours it all gets to be a bit too much. By the end of the night we were all just… mooching around waiting for the night to end.

So it wasn’t bad but it wasn’t the best night of my life. I don’t regret going but I’m not waiting around for the year 12 formal!

  1. # Amanda, 1 year ago.

    You guys look like such a cute couple. :P

  2. # Noemi, 1 year ago.

    Awww! You look so cute!
    The little chid is growing up so fast *tear*
    I agree with mandy, you and boris do looks cute together :P

  3. # Britney, 1 year ago.

    I know how you feel because I was like that with prom. I didn’t want to go but my boyfriend made me. It didn’t turn out to be amazing either but it wasn’t bad and I don’t regret going.

  4. # Amber, 1 year ago.

    I sort of ship Tracey/Boris. :P

  5. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    You make me want to take the picture down. Gahhhhh!

  6. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    Noz, I am totally not a chid anymore!

  7. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    ….WTF?!?!

  8. # Kaylee, 1 year ago.

    I guess it’s better for it to turn out “okay” rather than horrible! Those kinds of events are usually too long, though. They just drag on…

  9. # Xuan, 1 year ago.

    You take that picture down and I will not forgive you for it. You looked great! :)

    I didn’t go to my Year 12 formal. I sincerely regret it - since I was planning to come out to my entire year on that night, but oh well. I won’t say don’t go to it, though! Your formal sounded like mine did … hee. Bring on Year 12! … For Tracey. Yes. Ack, now I feel old.

  10. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    :O Why didn’t you go then? Old? You? Old? Hahahaha. Then I’m middle aged!

  11. # Boris, 1 year ago.

    See, I make you look good, hahaha. You would have whined if I said you looked snazzy at the formal, but look- everyone is saying it! And I thought the food was great, but I guess I always say that. By the way, what does ship mean?

  12. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    To ship something is to support it, like a character pairing e.g. You know how I ship Draco/Ginny… yeah well. Gah!

  13. # Amber, 1 year ago.

    Hahahaha.

    Couldn’t help myself, sorry. :(

  14. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    We were a ship destined to sink, Amber dearest.

  15. # Alex, 1 year ago.

    Damn you hot bitches!!!

  16. # Noemi, 1 year ago.

    You’ll always be the chid to me *hugs*

  17. # marilyn, 1 year ago.

    aww, you look so pretty! yeah, I know how you feel…it’s fun, but not like, “OMG, best moment of my life!” seriously…best moments need to be..well, better. And they are usually kinda long; my friends and I always came an hour late (had dinner elsewhere first) and left 30 min early (avoid crowded parking lot). Thinking back to prom…I didn’t eat as much as I should have…they had ice cream and BIG cookies…like the size of your outstretched hand.

  18. # Exene, 1 year ago.

    This post reminded me of my prom. Didn’t want to go but was forced to go because I couldn’t graduate if I didn’t go to the prom. You seem to had more fun then I did though. Couldn’t dance in the heals. You guys look cute.

  19. # Amber, 1 year ago.

    What do I know? I still support H/Hr! :(

  20. # Xuan, 1 year ago.

    Partly because my father refused to pay the deposit and money for it, and partially because I couldn’t be arsed finding a tuxedo and everything. Plus, none of my friends were going. Heh.

    Lucky youuu, still middle aged! Young ruffians! *hobbles along with walking stick*

  21. # Jen, 1 year ago.

    Glad you had a good time! My Year 10 formal was blah, and I skipped my Year 11 semi-formal, and had my Year 12 formal a few days ago. It was…anticlimatic — I’m not big on loud music, and dancing. But I’m glad I went so I can’t regret it and all that sort of thing.

  22. # Suse, 1 year ago.

    Ditto. :P

  23. # Kat, 1 year ago.

    And that’s how prom’s are meant to be :) You don’t really want to go, but all you’re friends are going, plus you don’t want to miss out. So you go, you have a bit of fun, and at the end of the night you’re just glad you went to say that you went and had a good time. Or is that just me? :-P

  24. # Rafia, 1 year ago.

    Not that I’ve ever been to prom or anything, but the fact that so many people especially in America think it’s the most important day in a high schooler’s life is kind of stupid. I’m sure it was fun, but the fuss everyone makes about it, is sort of unnecessary. I find most things in life are probably not as “beautiful and amazing” as people think them to be.

    I’m glad you had fun, that’s what it should be anyway: fun.

  25. # Chans, 1 year ago.

    Well at least you went and experienced it. My formal wasn’t amazing but it also wasn’t boring either (but that’s years ago so it must have been at least somewhat impressive as I can still remember it)

  26. # Aisling, 1 year ago.

    This is the first time I’ve seen your new layout, and it’s awesome! I love light on dark!

    Too bad your formal wasn’t amazing. I don’t think they ever live up to anyone’s expectations, actually!

  27. # Cyprus Apartments, 1 year ago.

    Cute picture and cute couple. I suggest you get away with glasses though.

  28. # Tracey, 1 year ago.

    See, I don’t even know if this comment is spam or not.

  29. # Paula, 1 year ago.

    I’m glad we don’t have that here! (I’m from Spain, by the way).
    You two look cute!

  30. # Radio Detector, 12 months ago.

    Pictures says a thousand words, but if it could be described in one word, it would be “ADORABLE”

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  32. # Pokémon Master, 11 months, 4 weeks ago.

    Jpegs say a thousand and twenty four words, but if it could be downloaded in one file, it would be “SAVE AS”. I suggest you get away with Internet Explorer though.

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